"What Would Happen"   - May 25, 2008
     
When something bad happens we always look for an excuse, or someone else to blame.  What would happen if everyone took the blame for being in the situation in the first place.  I am not saying its always your fault, but you at least have 1% of the blame.  There are many situations that happen on a daily basis that we can think about.  Just be honest with your self and think back to the last time something happened.  How much were you at fault and did you take it.  I just recently had to spend a bunch of money because I had did a couple favors for one of my cousins and my friend.  Instead of blaming them, I felt like it was my fault because in the back of my mind I knew I shouldn't do it anyway.  Its not a 100% my fault, but I believe that if I am in control of my life then I make my decisions.  I have noticed that it is a lot easier to live like this instead of always blaming someone else.  You put yourself at risk when you give others decision
making abilities in your life.  I hope you have control of your life.  Let me know what you think about this, and if you feel different.  My Thoughts, Your Time, Thanks for Reading. 

Nik L.